which is more important

when you are suffering from debt of few grand.

which is more important, relative/ friend or marriage.

in general life, money is the key. money move the world. without money the world probably don't spin at all.

let say a scenically
i own 20k, i wan to save my reputation about suffering debt. i keep to myself, my housing will be in danger. that is my secure debt. which means if i cant afford to repay the debt the bank have the right to take away my house and sell it at a auction, which is very costly as well.

why not shame yourself tell your relative and friend. u are heavily in debt and u need a couple of grand to spare... until u have enough to repay the loan.

at least you save your marriage and your housing. but they will be giving you a weird look.
or avoid you. even when they know your situation.

asian people dread about loan and debt.

borrowing a few couple of cash would wan their life.

so do not be shy and start asking. you get to see their true colour infact.